Lose yourself

Guys,

Everyone like to stay social (this topic is not about social networks) and to be honest with you I am not an exclusion. Everyday, while I am going to various places I am observing people. I suppose that most of you pay attention to the people that surrounds you. What can you conclude about them? May be You can say that they are serious or they are all In their business.. But I am going to characterize them from totally different aspect.  

People are identical. Of course it is overexaggeration and you should not understand this statement like 100 percent of people are the same but take a look and you will see what I mean. Most of people live alike life and have same habits and interests. Guys don’t be abased but I will tell you that some of you, men, are in this category of “similar” people. You have similar clothes cellphone and even hairstyle. But it is only external view. If you guys will look deeper you can see that you have not only the same tastes and preferences but even habits and goals. Most of you (nearly 65 percent) want to earn a lot and manage people. It is not my right to judge what is good and what is bad. However I think that every person is choosing his own life and his own destiny. I strongly doubt that two people can live the same life. But why you are trying to do it? Why you want same brands clothes and same brands smartphone. Guys you have a freedom to choose. All of you have different appearance even twins. You were born different but stereotypes and society made you all want same things and reach same goals. Everything starts from your childhood when your parents say teach you: Son do like this and don’t behave like this”. It is good to explain difference between good and bad but you should not impose your way of thinking to your child. Second stage is school where everyone wants to be the coolest guy and society giving you characteristics that cool guy should have. Third step is college/university where you very often listen that you need to graduate and then start your career and after certain period of type you will immediately have a promotion, you will manage people. But I will try to open your eyes. Life is perfect and whatever people say you are not a looser If you are not managing people. You don’t need to wait until graduation to have a working experience and to be promoted you not only need to be good executor but you should be creative and have a broader view then other staff members have. Each of you guys is good in something you are not same people and from my point of view it is not sufficient to have same goals and preferences. Nature created you self-identical not similar. You all are the same species but you are not the same. So guys try to be different and do not lose yourself.

Sincerely,

G.A